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2643 Old Bridge Rd
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Thomas Nestor

Thomas J Nestor

Sunday, September 3rd, 1939 - Sunday, June 2nd, 2019
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Thomas J. Nestor, 79 of Sea Girt passed away peacefully on Sunday June 2, 2019 with his loving family by his side. Tom will always be remembered for his wisdom, generosity and unique and witty insights on life and business. Tom was born on September 3, 1939 and raised in Washington Heights, New York City. He was a long-time resident of Sea Girt, NJ and Jupiter, FL. He was the third of four children born to Thomas P. and Mary (nee Finn) Nestor from County Mayo, Ireland. Tom received a Bachelor of Business Administration from Manhattan College in 1963. Tom also attended Pace University and earned his license as a Certified Public Accountant in 1969. Tom retired as Managing Director from Lehman Brothers in 1999 after 23 years of service. He was well liked and respected by his colleagues and especially by the members of his own team. Tom loved playing tennis and golf and the also liked the challenges of investing in the market. He enjoyed playing chess and Scrabble and teaching these games to his grandchildren. Ultimately, his greatest pastime was time spent at home with his family and a house full of talking and laughter. He was an active parishioner of St. Mark’s Church, Sea Girt, NJ and St Peter Catholic Church, Jupiter, FL. He was also a former Knights of Columbus member in each church.

Tom was predeceased by his parents, a brother Robert Nestor and a sister Barbara Nestor. He is survived by his devoted wife of 52 years, Bernadette (nee Cunningham) Nestor of Sea Girt; his three loving children: daughter Christine Nestor S Detweiler and her husband John of Summit, NJ; a son Thomas Nestor and his wife Maria of Madison, NJ; and a daughter Laura Nestor of Jupiter, FL; his three treasured grandchildren Jack Detweiler, Caroline Nestor and Christina Nestor. Tom is also survived by his brother John Nestor of New York City and numerous nieces and nephews.

Family and friends are invited to attend a visitation on Sunday June 9, 2019 from 1-5 pm at Orender Family Home for Funerals 2643 Old Bridge Road Manasquan. A Mass of Christian Burial will be 9:30 am on Monday, June 10, 2019 at St. Mark’s Church 215 Crescent Parkway, Sea Girt, NJ 08750. Entombment to follow at St Anne Mausoleum, 1610 Allenwood Road Wall, NJ. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to Hope Lodge 132 West 32nd Street New York, NY 10001, (please put Thomas J, Nestor in the memo). To send condolences to the family please visit
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  • Visitation

    Sunday, June 9th, 2019 | 1:00pm - 5:00pm
    Sunday, June 9th, 2019 1:00pm - 5:00pm
    Orender Family Home for Funerals
    2643 Old Bridge Road
    Manasquan, NJ 08736
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  • Mass of Christian Burial

    Monday, June 10th, 2019 | 9:30am
    Monday, June 10th, 2019 9:30am
    St Marks, Sea Girt, NJ
    215 Crescent Parkway
    Sea Girt, NJ 08750
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  • Interment

    Monday, June 10th, 2019 | 11:00am
    Monday, June 10th, 2019 11:00am
    St Anne's Cemetery
    1610 Allenwood Road
    Wall Twp., New Jersey 07719
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Posted at 06:24pm
Dear Bernadette & Family
I will alway remember Tom's welcoming smile and his ability to join in any tennis match. I enjoyed playing this past winter with him in Jupiter. May God surround you all with his loving arms and give you the strength to cope during this difficult time Love and hugs Bernadette Delany

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Dear Ton and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy from Andres and your entire GBS family.
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