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2643 Old Bridge Rd
Manasquan, NJ 08736
Phone: (732) 528-5500

Mary "Bobbi" White (McArthur)

Monday, July 6th, 1942 - Sunday, November 22nd, 2020
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Mary R. “Bobbi” McArthur White, 78, of Wall, NJ peacefully passed away on November 22, 2020 at Manor by the Sea in Ocean Grove. Born in Kearny, NJ, Bobbi lived most of her life in West Belmar. She was in the first graduating class of Wall High School. Bobbi enjoying doing crafts, working in her garden, and traveling, but most of all, she loved being with her family—especially Sunday dinners and holidays. Bobbi was a lifetime member of West Belmar Methodist Church. She served on many committees and volunteered her time to numerous events. She was known for her bright smile and playful sense of humor.

Bobbi was predeceased by her parents, Jean and Charles McArthur; her husband of forty-nine years, Robert L. “Bob” White; her sister, June Newman; and son-in-law, Steven Blecki. She is survived by her loving daughters, Shari Blecki and Robin Harvey; son-in-law, Harry Harvey; and her grandchildren: Chelsea, Madison and Ethan. She is also survived by her sister, Marion Hall; her identical twin, Sandy French; and nieces, nephews, and cousins.

There will be a graveside service on Saturday, December 5, 2020 at 11:00 AM at Wall Church Cemetery, 2414 Old Mill Road, Spring Lake Heights, NJ. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Bobbi’s memory to West Belmar United Methodist Church, 1000 17th Avenue, West Belmar, NJ 07719. To post a tribute or offer a condolence, you may visit We would like to thank everyone at Manor by the Sea for the wonderful and loving care they gave our mother.
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Dear family, I grew up with your mom and your aunt Sandy. We were in the youth group at church and did lots of things together. She was one of the nicest, kindness persons I know. I don’t think she would ever say anything to hurt anyone’s feelings. She was one of the “L” st gang where I grew up as well as your dad. She will be missed by many, especially at her beloved church. In Christian love, Mariemma Gifford Thompson

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